Do Kittens Remember Their Mother?


Still, we know that cats can remember each other but instead of using faces like humans do they remember each other via scent.

A cat’s sense of smell is roughly 14 times more powerful than our own and scent is a cat’s primary way of navigating the world. Understanding that scent is important to cats can help us understand many feline behaviors from why they love sleeping on suitcases to why they lick the shower curtain and everything in between.

But the big problem is that scents can change over time and this could explain why mothers don’t remember kittens and kittens may not remember their mother.

It’s easy to see how a kitten that’s nesting with his mom and littermates will smell very different as an adult inside a home of his own.

For a human comparison, imagine if someone you knew had their face completely changed years later…you probably wouldn’t remember them either! While we may recognize the familiar smell of a person, humans are much more visually focused and a completely different face would throw us for a loop.

Of course, it’s not helpful to anthropomorphize too much but that does help illustrate the point and give a chance to relate to what can feel like strange cat behavior.

While it’s generally true that kittens won’t remember their mother, this isn’t true 100% of the time. If a kitten never leaves their mother and continues to live in the same home then they’ll certainly remember their mom.

But because the social life of cats is so different from our own, we shouldn’t assume that they’ll have a relationship that’s better or worse with this cat because they’re related. Instead, it will just be like any other relationship with another cat.

We already mentioned how many kittens are separated from their mother as early as 8 weeks old, but there are plenty of scenarios where kittens can live with their mom into young adulthood and then may be reunited later.

In these cases, it’s certainly possible that former kittens will remember their mother. These cats have had more time to establish scent memories and form some kind of relationship with their mom. It’s also possible that like humans, kittens may not be able to remember things from before a certain age.

We don’t know for sure at what age cats will remember their mother or how long it takes for these memories to form but under the right circumstances, it’s certainly possible for cats to keep their memory of mom.

Do Mother Cats Remember Their Kittens?

It makes sense that a young kitten separated early from their mother wouldn’t remember her. This is something we can easily relate to since most of us are aware that there’s a lot we don’t remember from our earliest years.

But the other side of this question is a little harder to understand.

Why would a mother cat not remember their own kittens?

Again, it comes back to scent! Remember that cats identify each other based on their smell and not a specific look or face. That doesn’t mean that mother cats can’t recognize their kittens visually but after enough time has passed mother cats will turn to scent to recognize cats instead of just looks.

After years, or less in some cases, a cat’s scent may completely change leaving them unrecognizable to their own mother! At the risk of anthropomorphizing too much, it’s similar to the already mentioned idea of a person’s face completely changing years after you’ve seen them.

That doesn’t mean mother cats don’t love their kittens but as we’ve already explained as solitary creatures that typically don’t form groups which means that in the wild they’d rarely need to recognize related felines.

Time Is The Big Variable

Everything we’ve explained so far are rough guidelines that explain most situations.

But the big variable to consider here is time.

If cats are separated from each other for a week, it’s pretty likely that they’ll recognize each other. The same may be true for 10 days or 30 days.

What we don’t know is when cats will stop remembering. While time is the biggest explanation, major changes to a cat’s scent could decrease the amount of time it takes before cats fail to recognize each other.

After more than a decade in shelter medicine, I’ve seen thousands and thousands of kittens leave their mother and I’ve never seen a single kitten that even looked like they missed their mom. Kittens are 100% in the moment and they’re not worried about their mother as much as they’re worried about having fun, sleeping, exploring and of course eating!

Do Mother Cats Miss Their Kittens?

Okay, so once again let’s look at the opposite scenario- will a mother cat miss her kittens?

This one can be a little more difficult to pin down. Some studies suggest that some non-human species suffer from postpartum depression which could be seen as a form of missing their kittens but if you look at this from a strictly scientific perspective it suddenly seems a lot less sentimental.

The Naked Scientist explains that “The main animals that have been looked at [for postpartum depression] are rats and mice, because they’ve mainly been used as laboratory models for humans and they do find that rats can show depressive symptoms, things like poor nursing, signs of stress and anxiety after birth.”

But this isn’t exactly a result of being sad and they go on to explain that “You can also manipulate the hormone levels in rats to bring on post-natal depression-type symptoms, and there’s some labs that are doing this and are trying to test interventions and ways to help reduce this, because it’s definitely thought that changing hormone levels – increases in cortisol, drops in females sex hormones – help to bring on this kind of problem.”

So if kittens are suddenly removed from their mother, cats may suffer some form of postpartum depression that can certainly seem like sadness related to missing their kittens. But with the hormonal cocktail that comes with pregnancy, it’s hard to say if it really counts as missing her kittens or not- at least in the way that humans think of it.

Motherhood can create many changes in cats and what was previously a laidback loving cat will suddenly have new priorities as they become focused on taking care of their little ones. After all, keeping kitten disciplined is hard work!

That means they’ll also show what could look like concern if her kittens are moved around or even handled too much.

In either of situations, we can’t say for sure that mom cats are missing their kittens in the same way that a human mom would but instead these reactions are heavily rooted in material instincts that drive our feline friends.

Closing Thoughts

It can be hard to imagine the idea of not remembering your mother but when considering that kittens are often removed from their mother at only 2 months old it starts to be a little easier to wrap your head around the idea.

But when it comes to mom cats not remembering their kittens that’s where it gets pretty difficult to relate!

However, that’s only if you’re stuck trying to relate to cats on humans terms which is a surefire recipe for confusion!

Instead, remember that cats don’t see the world as we do and where we may use our vision to relate to the world around us cats use their powerful sense of smell to recognize and understand the world around them.

Once we understand that, suddenly things don’t seem quite so strange!

What do you think? Have you had a feline family reunion that went differently than you expected?

Logan M.

Logan has always loved everything about cats! Growing up with a family full of pets and a lifelong passion for animals he pursued work in the veterinary industry. After 10 years, he started BetterWithCats.net to help cat owners learn more about their feline friends.

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