Kneading is a type of behavior where a cat expresses emotions of safety and contentment. Your cat kneads you, but not your husband? You’re probably her favorite human!
You’re the one who cleans your cat’s litter box, feed her, and plays with her for the most of time? No wander you’re the first person she wants to knead!
Cats love to have a blanket or garment to knead before sleeping. If those things aren’t available, and your cat sees you laying there all alone – she will knead you!
Women are usually more patient and more compassionate than men. It’s possible that you take care of your cat due to maternal instinct, while your husband pays more attention to other things.